The show of single minded unity that for a rare moment gripped this vast country was only fleeting. The debate forums are back to rehearsed arguments over their easy binary distinctions, the politicians are back to passing the buck around while kicking up enough dust to make it seem like action, the media is flying off on tangents and has all but lost the plot, and the rest of us got back to our everyday selves, feeding our children and our hidden pyres of fear and loathing.
With an incident of this magnitude, widely described as one that would ‘change India forever’ , what is this great inner force that pits us terribly against each other, that relentlessly churns this mass of people around in a sickening cesspool? Why is the story of the Indian frogs in a well so accurate and so damning?
Like most big problems, the answers are mostly within, hidden deeply in our selves and not so much a creation of external forces. The fundamental reason, that causes me to desperately claw out at a fellow Indian who’s views, ideas, attitudes, principles, personality, image, affiliations may be contradictory, or challenging to me is because I identify so strongly with that other person. It is like having a part of my own self that I see acting unlike what I know myself to be. Of going against my very grain – an errant mental strain that is trying to be something else – higher, different, opposite – to what i am. And the frustration I feel at this charade, this complete disregard for my own ‘true’ self is something that causes me to lash out with such violence. It is a violence against myself – of an inability to reconcile parts of myself that refuse to obey me.
We would not get into impassioned debates and absolutely personal arguments and attacks of the kind we are so used to, with a person whom we do not identify with. Our oneness is the biggest cause for our divisiveness. And time and again, history shows this that there is no shortage of willing opportunists that would exploit this to their own benefit. The squabbling meanwhile, continues.
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